THE POWER OF GOALS ; PART THREE (GOAL SETTING AND GO-GETTING; THE NEXUS)

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 Think of it this way. If you are clear where you are going (using goals) and you take several steps in that direction every day, you will eventually have to get there. If I head north out of the University of Ibadans zoological garden and take some steps forward, I will eventually end up at the Old sports complex.

I want you to realize that you are the master of your soul and the captain of your fate. Success comes by taking a hundred percent responsibility for your life. You are not to blame your uncle, aunt or any other family member. You are where you are and what you are because of what you have done or failed to do. You are very much the architect of your own destiny. If it is going to be, then it is up to you. Today lies ahead of you waiting to be shaped, and here you are the sculptor who gets to do the shaping. What today will be like is up to you. You get to determine what kind of day you will have. When you accept complete responsibility for your life, you take the giant step from childhood to adulthood. The truth is that where your attention goes, energy flows and result shows. 

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